Working with the elderly or infirm can come with its challenges. From getting to grips and understanding different people’s needs, to doing everyday tasks such as preparing lunch or tying their shoelaces, caring for older people is a job that requires dedication and perseverance.
What people don’t tell you about caring for older people is how amazing it can truly be! We have put together a few examples from carers themselves.
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They don’t tell you that working in care can be a humbling experience, especially during a global pandemic.
'Even on the hardest days, someone will remind you exactly why you love what you do'
For example, when it comes to working with a service user you see regularly, the smallest things can make a huge difference to your day. Watching someone do something independently for the first time in a while, having a conversation about their childhood or even something as simple as seeing them smile. Your day can be turned around in seconds and leave you feeling positive and motivated.
Two
They don’t tell you that you and your service user can become friends. You can end up spending a good amount of time visiting the same people so getting to know them and the things they enjoy can be hugely rewarding. You might find out that you share common interests or you might even be able to teach each other a thing or two. We have heard that ‘smashing out Vera Lynn’ is highly likely… you might even learn to love it!
You might find it useful when heading to your visits to prepare a few conversation starters to help build rapport. They could be:
- What is the best advice you have ever received?
- What is something that has made you happy this week?
- What is your favourite memory?
